Virtual Sex & Couples Therapy Across Oregon, Washington, Virginia, & Washington DC
Specialized Support For Sex, Intimacy, and Your Relationship—Without Shame or Avoidance
Sex Therapy for Desire, Intimacy, & Pleasure
Couples Counseling for Lasting Change
Individual Therapy to Understand Yourself More Deeply
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Do you feel more like roommates than partners and craving real connection again?
Are desire differences, sexual tension, or intimacy struggles creating distance in your relationship?
Is communication, conflict, or emotional disconnection leaving you overwhelmed or stuck?
Are you interested in exploring alternative relationship structures, kink, or BDSM?
That’s where I can help…
Expert & Specialized Care
Licensed in Oregon, Washington, Virginia, & Washington DC
-Sex therapy for intimate relationship challenges
-Couples counseling for communication and trust issues
- Individual therapy for sexual concerns, anxiety, insomnia, and personal growth
Ready To Take The Next Step? Email, Call, or Text to Start Your Journey Today.
Hi, I’m Dr. Nicole Irving, licensed psychotherapist and certified sex therapist. I offer a safe, judgment-free space where healing begins. I provide specialized and evidence-based sex and relationship therapy services to help individuals and couples overcome life’s obstacles and reignite healthy connection, communication, and intimacy.
What I Help With
Sex Therapy for Desire & Connection
Are you feeling disconnected from pleasure, facing desire differences, navigating sexual dysfunction, or wanting to deepen intimacy? Maybe you’re interested in exploring kink, BDSM, or navigating polyamory or non-monogamy.
Sex therapy offers a shame-free space to explore and discuss vulnerable topics. Together, we work toward clarity, confidence, and a more fulfilling sexual self or partnership.
Couples Counseling for Communication & Conflict
Rebuild connection, improve communication, and break long-standing patterns that keep you feeling like “roommates.”
Couples counseling allows couples the power to heal distance, navigate conflict, repair trust, and rediscover intimacy so your relationship feels supportive, safe, and alive again.
Individual Therapy for Emotional Growth
Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, identity questions, sexual concerns, or relationship stress, I provide specialized one-on-one support to help you understand what’s getting in the way and create meaningful change.
CBT-I therapy for insomnia isalsoavailable to improve sleep, energy, and overall well-being.
Specialized Sex and Relationship Therapy Services with…
Clear, Actionable Guidance, Not Just Talking
I offer tailored therapy designed to meet your unique challenges.
I combine evidence-based techniques with compassionate care, personalized exactly for you.
Together, we will transform your relationships and life toward lasting change.
Ready to take the first step toward meaningful change??
Therapy can be a powerful turning point.
Whether you’re trying to reconnect with your partner, heal from emotional pain, or understand yourself more deeply, the right support can make all the difference.
With a safe space and guidance that fits your needs, real and lasting change is possible—in your life, your relationships, and how you feel day to day.
If you’re ready to take the next step, I’m here to help.